salam to allz~
nowadays, parents tend to make their children fully-equipped with ipad or iphone or ipod or whatever equipment they think they can give,,,
but what the children really need are not those things,,
they only need M.O.M and D.A.D,,
they need love from them,,,
so show them that you care,,,
how??
ask them~
though it may look like your children hate it very much, in reality they love it!
but you have to ask them in a gentle way,,,
do not judge them too early~
got what i mean??
no??
hmm how to say this,,,
if your children tell you they are going to study in their friend's house, do not ask 'yeke?? blh caye ke nih???'~
never show that you are actually do not trust them~
have faith in your children as well~
may Allah bless~ ^_^